INTRO TO THE GOSPEL OF JOHN, Sarah Barry
HE MUST INCREASE; I MUST DECREASE
Passage: John 3:22~36  
Key verse: 30
John Testifies Again About Jesus
22 After this, Jesus and his disciples went out into the Judean countryside, where he spent some time with them, and baptized.(A) 23 Now John(B) also was baptizing at Aenon near Salim, because there was plenty of water, and people were coming and being baptized. 24 (This was before John was put in prison.)(C) 25 An argument developed between some of John’s disciples and a certain Jew over the matter of ceremonial washing.(D) 26 They came to John and said to him, “Rabbi,(E) that man who was with you on the other side of the Jordan—the one you testified(F) about—look, he is baptizing, and everyone is going to him.”
27 To this John replied, “A person can receive only what is given them from heaven. 28 You yourselves can testify that I said, ‘I am not the Messiah but am sent ahead of him.’(G) 29 The bride belongs to the bridegroom.(H) The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete.(I) 30 He must become greater; I must become less.”[a]
31 The one who comes from above(J) is above all; the one who is from the earth belongs to the earth, and speaks as one from the earth.(K) The one who comes from heaven is above all. 32 He testifies to what he has seen and heard,(L) but no one accepts his testimony.(M) 33 Whoever has accepted it has certified that God is truthful. 34 For the one whom God has sent(N) speaks the words of God, for God[b] gives the Spirit(O) without limit. 35 The Father loves the Son and has placed everything in his hands.(P) 36 Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life,(Q) but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them.
Cross references
- John 3:22 : Jn 4:2
- John 3:23 : S Mt 3:1
- John 3:24 : Mt 4:12; 14:3
- John 3:25 : Jn 2:6
- John 3:26 : S Mt 23:7
- John 3:26 : Jn 1:7
- John 3:28 : Jn 1:20, 23
- John 3:29 : Mt 9:15
- John 3:29 : Jn 16:24; 17:13; Php 2:2; 1Jn 1:4; 2Jn 12
- John 3:31 : ver 13
- John 3:31 : Jn 8:23; 1Jn 4:5
- John 3:32 : Jn 8:26; 15:15
- John 3:32 : ver 11
- John 3:34 : S ver 17
- John 3:34 : Isa 42:1; Mt 12:18; Lk 4:18; Ac 10:38
- John 3:35 : S Mt 28:18
- John 3:36 : S ver 15; Jn 5:24; 6:47
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1. The joy of the friend (22-30)
John's disciples were sorry to see people leaving John and going to Jesus. They were humanly loyal to John, but they were not listening to his teaching, for John's whole ministry pointed to Jesus. John accepted God's sovereignty in his personal life and ministry (27). He rejoiced to see people going to Jesus, for Jesus alone is the true bridegroom.
2. Whoever believes in the Son has life (31-36)
John wanted his disciples to go to Jesus. To go to Jesus or stay with John was not a matter of personal preference; it was a matter of life and death. John was only an earthbound witness; Jesus came from heaven. The Father God loved Jesus his Son and put all authority in his hands. Jesus is the truth; he sought to plant God's word in men. One's response to Jesus determines his eternal destiny. One who rejects (does not obey--RSV) the Son will not see life--God's wrath rests on him.
Prayer: Lord, you are my true bridegroom, the Giver of life and joy. I come to you. Help me to listen to your word and obey you today.
One Word: Jesus must increase; I, decrease