Proverbs , Sarah Barry
PEOPLE DIE FOR LACK OF DISCIPLINE
Passage: Proverbs 5:1~23  
Key verse: 21,23
Warning Against Adultery5 My son,(A) pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words(B) of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;(C)
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,(D)
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.(E)
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.(F)
7 Now then, my sons, listen(G) to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,(H)
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honor to others
and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.(I)
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!(J)
13 I would not obey my teachers
or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 And I was soon in serious trouble(K)
in the assembly of God’s people.”(L)
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.
18 May your fountain(M) be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.(N)
19 A loving doe, a graceful deer(O)—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?
5 My son,(A) pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words(B) of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;(C)
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,(D)
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps lead straight to the grave.(E)
6 She gives no thought to the way of life;
her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.(F)
7 Now then, my sons, listen(G) to me;
do not turn aside from what I say.
8 Keep to a path far from her,(H)
do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you lose your honor to others
and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
and your toil enrich the house of another.(I)
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
How my heart spurned correction!(J)
13 I would not obey my teachers
or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 And I was soon in serious trouble(K)
in the assembly of God’s people.”(L)
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
running water from your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
your streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be yours alone,
never to be shared with strangers.
18 May your fountain(M) be blessed,
and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.(N)
19 A loving doe, a graceful deer(O)—
may her breasts satisfy you always,
may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?
Footnotes
- Proverbs 5:9 Or years
Cross references
- Proverbs 5:1 : S Pr 1:8
- Proverbs 5:1 : Pr 4:20
- Proverbs 5:3 : S Ps 55:21; Pr 7:5
- Proverbs 5:4 : Ecc 7:26
- Proverbs 5:5 : S Ps 9:17; S Pr 2:18; 7:26-27
- Proverbs 5:6 : Pr 9:13; 30:20
- Proverbs 5:7 : Pr 1:8-9
- Proverbs 5:8 : S Pr 2:16-19; 6:20-29; 7:1-27
- Proverbs 5:10 : Pr 29:3
- Proverbs 5:12 : Pr 12:1
- Proverbs 5:14 : Pr 1:24-27; 6:33
- Proverbs 5:14 : Pr 31:3
- Proverbs 5:18 : SS 4:12-15
- Proverbs 5:18 : S Dt 20:7; Pr 2:17; Ecc 9:9; Mal 2:14
- Proverbs 5:19 : SS 4:5; 8:14
- Proverbs 5:21 : S Ps 119:168
- Proverbs 5:21 : Jer 29:23
- Proverbs 5:21 : S Job 10:4; S 14:16; Pr 15:3; Jer 32:19; S Heb 4:13
- Proverbs 5:22 : Ps 9:16
- Proverbs 5:22 : Nu 32:23; S Job 18:9; Ps 7:15-16; S Pr 1:31-32
- Proverbs 5:23 : S Job 4:21; Pr 10:21
- Proverbs 5:23 : Job 34:21-25; Pr 11:5
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1. Don't hate discipline (1-14)
Many people think they are being honest when they live according to their feelings. But our all-wise Father God warns us that illicit love affairs and/or promiscuous lifestyles are not only foolish, but they lead to death (5). Those who hate discipline and whose hearts spurn correction someday will be full of regret (12).
2. Drink water from your own cistern (15-23)
There is great peace and satisfaction of soul when we learn joyfully to accept the life God has given us. When we do things that we know are wrong, thinking that no one is watching, we may be sure that our ways are in full view of the Lord (21). One who thinks that he is expressing his freedom when he sins, finds that the cords of his own sin hold him fast, and that he dies for lack of discipline (22,23).
Prayer: Lord, teach me to discipline my heart and my words and my actions, and live according to your word, rather than by my own fickle feelings.
One Word: Exercise discipline--live in God's sight