Proverbs , Sarah Barry
A WORD APTLY SPOKEN
Passage: Proverbs 25:1~28  
Key verse: 11,25
More Proverbs of Solomon
25 These are more proverbs(A) of Solomon, compiled by the men of Hezekiah king of Judah:(B)
2 It is the glory of God to conceal a matter;
to search out a matter is the glory of kings.(C)
3 As the heavens are high and the earth is deep,
so the hearts of kings are unsearchable.
4 Remove the dross from the silver,
and a silversmith can produce a vessel;
5 remove wicked officials from the king’s presence,(D)
and his throne will be established(E) through righteousness.(F)
6 Do not exalt yourself in the king’s presence,
and do not claim a place among his great men;
7 it is better for him to say to you, “Come up here,”(G)
than for him to humiliate you before his nobles.
What you have seen with your eyes
8 do not bring[a] hastily to court,
for what will you do in the end
if your neighbor puts you to shame?(H)
9 If you take your neighbor to court,
do not betray another’s confidence,
10 or the one who hears it may shame you
and the charge against you will stand.
11 Like apples[b] of gold in settings of silver(I)
is a ruling rightly given.
12 Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold
is the rebuke of a wise judge to a listening ear.(J)
13 Like a snow-cooled drink at harvest time
is a trustworthy messenger to the one who sends him;
he refreshes the spirit of his master.(K)
14 Like clouds and wind without rain
is one who boasts of gifts never given.
16 If you find honey, eat just enough—
too much of it, and you will vomit.(N)
17 Seldom set foot in your neighbor’s house—
too much of you, and they will hate you.
18 Like a club or a sword or a sharp arrow
is one who gives false testimony against a neighbor.(O)
19 Like a broken tooth or a lame foot
is reliance on the unfaithful in a time of trouble.
20 Like one who takes away a garment on a cold day,
or like vinegar poured on a wound,
is one who sings songs to a heavy heart.
21 If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
22 In doing this, you will heap burning coals(P) on his head,
and the Lord will reward you.(Q)
23 Like a north wind that brings unexpected rain
is a sly tongue—which provokes a horrified look.
24 Better to live on a corner of the roof
than share a house with a quarrelsome wife.(R)
25 Like cold water to a weary soul
is good news from a distant land.(S)
26 Like a muddied spring or a polluted well
are the righteous who give way to the wicked.
27 It is not good to eat too much honey,(T)
nor is it honorable to search out matters that are too deep.(U)
28 Like a city whose walls are broken through
is a person who lacks self-control.
Footnotes
- Proverbs 25:8 Or nobles / on whom you had set your eyes. / 8 Do not go
- Proverbs 25:11 Or possibly apricots
Cross references
- Proverbs 25:1 : S 1Ki 4:32
- Proverbs 25:1 : S Pr 1:1
- Proverbs 25:2 : Pr 16:10-15
- Proverbs 25:5 : S Pr 20:8
- Proverbs 25:5 : S 2Sa 7:13
- Proverbs 25:5 : S Pr 16:12; 29:14
- Proverbs 25:7 : Lk 14:7-10
- Proverbs 25:8 : Mt 5:25-26
- Proverbs 25:11 : ver 12; Pr 15:23
- Proverbs 25:12 : S ver 11; Ps 141:5; S Pr 13:18
- Proverbs 25:13 : S Pr 10:26; 13:17
- Proverbs 25:15 : Ecc 10:4
- Proverbs 25:15 : Pr 15:1
- Proverbs 25:16 : ver 27
- Proverbs 25:18 : S Pr 12:18
- Proverbs 25:22 : S Ps 18:8
- Proverbs 25:22 : S 2Ch 28:15; Mt 5:44; Ro 12:20*
- Proverbs 25:24 : S Pr 21:9
- Proverbs 25:25 : Pr 15:30
- Proverbs 25:27 : ver 16
- Proverbs 25:27 : Pr 27:2; S Mt 23:12
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1. For men who would be leaders (1-7)
God has hidden secrets; a leader must search out the deep things of God. A real leader is lonely, for he must keep many secrets in his heart. It is his business to know what is going on among his people and in his world. A leader is established in righteousness (3-5). We should have humble hearts before God and before the men he has established as our leaders (6-7).
2. An apt word (8-28)
Sometimes it is wiser to be silent (8-10). A rebuke is sometimes the most apt and appropriate word (11,12). The Lord wants trustworthy messengers who will deliver his message clearly (13). False testimony kills truth and destroys character. It is not fitting to sing joyful songs to one who has a heavy heart. Like cold water to a weary soul is good news from a distant land. We should love enemies for Jesus' sake (21,22), but we should not give in to them--and become like a polluted well (26).
Prayer: Lord, give me a humble heart so that the words I speak may be apt words. Help me to tell the good news of Jesus.
One Word: Speak apt words