Show yourself a man, Sarah Barry
DAVID'S CHARGE TO SOLOMON
Passage: 1Kings 2:1~12  
Key verse: 2b-3a
David’s Charge to Solomon(A)
2 When the time drew near for David to die,(B) he gave a charge to Solomon his son.
2 “I am about to go the way of all the earth,”(C) he said. “So be strong,(D) act like a man, 3 and observe(E) what the Lord your God requires: Walk in obedience to him, and keep his decrees and commands, his laws and regulations, as written in the Law of Moses. Do this so that you may prosper(F) in all you do and wherever you go 4 and that the Lord may keep his promise(G) to me: ‘If your descendants watch how they live, and if they walk faithfully(H) before me with all their heart and soul, you will never fail to have a successor on the throne of Israel.’
5 “Now you yourself know what Joab(I) son of Zeruiah did to me—what he did to the two commanders of Israel’s armies, Abner(J) son of Ner and Amasa(K) son of Jether. He killed them, shedding their blood in peacetime as if in battle, and with that blood he stained the belt around his waist and the sandals on his feet. 6 Deal with him according to your wisdom,(L) but do not let his gray head go down to the grave in peace.
7 “But show kindness(M) to the sons of Barzillai(N) of Gilead and let them be among those who eat at your table.(O) They stood by me when I fled from your brother Absalom.
8 “And remember, you have with you Shimei(P) son of Gera, the Benjamite from Bahurim, who called down bitter curses on me the day I went to Mahanaim.(Q) When he came down to meet me at the Jordan, I swore(R) to him by the Lord: ‘I will not put you to death by the sword.’ 9 But now, do not consider him innocent. You are a man of wisdom;(S) you will know what to do to him. Bring his gray head down to the grave in blood.”
10 Then David rested with his ancestors and was buried(T) in the City of David.(U) 11 He had reigned(V) forty years over Israel—seven years in Hebron and thirty-three in Jerusalem. 12 So Solomon sat on the throne(W) of his father David, and his rule was firmly established.(X)
Cross references
- 1 Kings 2:1 : 2:10-12pp — 1Ch 29:26-28
- 1 Kings 2:1 : S Ge 27:2; S Nu 27:13
- 1 Kings 2:2 : Jos 23:14
- 1 Kings 2:2 : S Jos 1:6
- 1 Kings 2:3 : S Dt 4:6; S 10:12; S 17:14-20; S Jos 1:7
- 1 Kings 2:3 : 1Ch 22:13
- 1 Kings 2:4 : S 2Sa 7:13, 25; 2Ch 23:3
- 1 Kings 2:4 : 2Ki 18:3-6; 20:3; Ps 26:1-3; 132:12
- 1 Kings 2:5 : S 2Sa 2:18
- 1 Kings 2:5 : S 1Sa 14:50; S 2Sa 3:27
- 1 Kings 2:5 : S 2Sa 17:25
- 1 Kings 2:6 : ver 9
- 1 Kings 2:7 : S Ge 40:14
- 1 Kings 2:7 : S 2Sa 17:27; 19:31-39
- 1 Kings 2:7 : S 2Sa 9:7
- 1 Kings 2:8 : ver 36-46; 2Sa 16:5-13
- 1 Kings 2:8 : S Ge 32:2
- 1 Kings 2:8 : 2Sa 19:18-23
- 1 Kings 2:9 : ver 6
- 1 Kings 2:10 : Ac 2:29
- 1 Kings 2:10 : S 2Sa 5:7
- 1 Kings 2:11 : S 2Sa 5:4, 5
- 1 Kings 2:12 : 1Ch 17:14; 29:23; 2Ch 9:8
- 1 Kings 2:12 : ver 46; 2Ch 1:1; 12:13; 17:1; 21:4
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1. Step up and lead (1-4)
David knew that Solomon was young and inexperienced. He instructed his son to be strong, act like a man, and to be wholly committed to God. As a leader, Solomon would need courage. It was time for him to set aside childish, trivial matters and to protect and shepherd his people. Observing God's law would be the key factor for Solomon's success and David's legacy.
2. Dealing with others as king (5-12)
Joab and Shimei had caused trouble for David and were threats to Solomon. On the other hand, Barzillai had treated David well and Solomon was directed to reciprocate. The new king needed wisdom in all his dealings with people, both potential enemies and friends.
Prayer: Lord, please raise strong, courageous and selfless leaders who love and obey you. Help me to possess these qualities and be a spiritual leader.
One Word: Be strong and love God