GOOD CHRISTIAN OVERSEERS, Dr. Samuel Lee
OVERSEERS AND DEACONS
Passage: 1_Timothy 3:1~13  
Key verse: 1
Qualifications for Overseers and Deacons
3 Here is a trustworthy saying:(A) Whoever aspires to be an overseer(B) desires a noble task. 2 Now the overseer is to be above reproach,(C) faithful to his wife,(D) temperate,(E) self-controlled, respectable, hospitable,(F) able to teach,(G) 3 not given to drunkenness,(H) not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome,(I) not a lover of money.(J) 4 He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full[a] respect.(K) 5 (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God’s church?)(L) 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited(M) and fall under the same judgment(N) as the devil. 7 He must also have a good reputation with outsiders,(O) so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil’s trap.(P)
8 In the same way, deacons[b](Q) are to be worthy of respect, sincere, not indulging in much wine,(R) and not pursuing dishonest gain. 9 They must keep hold of the deep truths of the faith with a clear conscience.(S) 10 They must first be tested;(T) and then if there is nothing against them, let them serve as deacons.
11 In the same way, the women[c] are to be worthy of respect, not malicious talkers(U) but temperate(V) and trustworthy in everything.
12 A deacon must be faithful to his wife(W) and must manage his children and his household well.(X) 13 Those who have served well gain an excellent standing and great assurance in their faith in Christ Jesus.
Footnotes
- 1 Timothy 3:4 Or him with proper
- 1 Timothy 3:8 The word deacons refers here to Christians designated to serve with the overseers/elders of the church in a variety of ways; similarly in verse 12; and in Romans 16:1 and Phil. 1:1.
- 1 Timothy 3:11 Possibly deacons’ wives or women who are deacons
Cross references
- 1 Timothy 3:1 : S 1Ti 1:15
- 1 Timothy 3:1 : Ac 20:28; Php 1:1; Tit 1:7
- 1 Timothy 3:2 : Tit 1:6-8
- 1 Timothy 3:2 : ver 12
- 1 Timothy 3:2 : ver 11; Tit 2:2
- 1 Timothy 3:2 : S Ro 12:13
- 1 Timothy 3:2 : 2Ti 2:24
- 1 Timothy 3:3 : Tit 1:7
- 1 Timothy 3:3 : 2Ti 2:24
- 1 Timothy 3:3 : Lk 16:14; 1Ti 6:10; 2Ti 3:2; Heb 13:5; 1Pe 5:2
- 1 Timothy 3:4 : ver 12; Tit 1:6
- 1 Timothy 3:5 : S 1Co 10:32
- 1 Timothy 3:6 : 1Ti 6:4; 2Ti 3:4
- 1 Timothy 3:6 : S 2Pe 2:4
- 1 Timothy 3:7 : S Mk 4:11
- 1 Timothy 3:7 : 2Ti 2:26
- 1 Timothy 3:8 : Php 1:1
- 1 Timothy 3:8 : 1Ti 5:23; Tit 1:7; 2:3
- 1 Timothy 3:9 : S Ac 23:1
- 1 Timothy 3:10 : 1Ti 5:22
- 1 Timothy 3:11 : 2Ti 3:3; Tit 2:3
- 1 Timothy 3:11 : ver 2
- 1 Timothy 3:12 : ver 2
- 1 Timothy 3:12 : ver 4
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An overseer has a noble task. He is a shepherd of God's flock. Primarily, he must demonstrate that he can oversee his own life before God. He should also be a faithful husband and father in his family before taking on the greater responsibility of a leader in God's house. He should not pursue a leadership position out of pride or conceit but rather to humbly serve God's people. An overseer should be mature in their faith and reputable both inside and outside the church. This brings God glory.
2. Those who serve well (8-13)
Deacons are men and women called to be servants of those within the church. They are to be worthy of respect, living faithful lives in their homes, in the church, and before God. Those who serve well in their capacity as leaders and servants of God's people receive a spiritual reward. Not only do they gain excellent standing in this life, but they grow in the eternal hope of God and the assurance of their faith.
Prayer: Lord, raise up stewards of the word of God and the work of God, those who can serve God's people in the image of Christ.
One Word: A leader who serves God's flock