Proverbs , Sarah Barry
BE KIND AND GIVE
Passage: Proverbs 11:16~31  
Key verse: 18
16 A kindhearted woman gains honor,(A)
but ruthless men gain only wealth.
17 Those who are kind benefit themselves,
but the cruel bring ruin on themselves.
18 A wicked person earns deceptive wages,
but the one who sows righteousness reaps a sure reward.(B)
20 The Lord detests those whose hearts are perverse,(E)
but he delights(F) in those whose ways are blameless.(G)
21 Be sure of this: The wicked will not go unpunished,
but those who are righteous will go free.(H)
22 Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout
is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.
23 The desire of the righteous ends only in good,
but the hope of the wicked only in wrath.
24 One person gives freely, yet gains even more;
another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty.
26 People curse the one who hoards grain,
but they pray God’s blessing on the one who is willing to sell.
27 Whoever seeks good finds favor,
but evil comes to one who searches for it.(K)
28 Those who trust in their riches will fall,(L)
but the righteous will thrive like a green leaf.(M)
29 Whoever brings ruin on their family will inherit only wind,
and the fool will be servant to the wise.(N)
30 The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life,(O)
and the one who is wise saves lives.
31 If the righteous receive their due(P) on earth,
how much more the ungodly and the sinner!
Cross references
- Proverbs 11:16 : Pr 31:31
- Proverbs 11:18 : S Ex 1:20; S Job 4:8; Hos 10:12-13
- Proverbs 11:19 : S Dt 30:15; S Pr 10:2
- Proverbs 11:19 : 1Sa 2:6; Ps 89:48; Pr 1:18-19; Ecc 7:2; Jer 43:11
- Proverbs 11:20 : Pr 3:32
- Proverbs 11:20 : S Nu 14:8
- Proverbs 11:20 : S 1Ch 29:17; S Ps 15:2; 101:1-4; S 119:1; Pr 12:2, 22; 15:9
- Proverbs 11:21 : Pr 16:5
- Proverbs 11:25 : 1Ch 29:17; Isa 32:8
- Proverbs 11:25 : Pr 22:9; 2Co 9:6-9
- Proverbs 11:27 : Ps 7:15-16
- Proverbs 11:28 : Job 31:24-28; S Ps 49:6; S 52:7; 62:10; Jer 9:23; 48:7
- Proverbs 11:28 : Ps 52:8; 92:12-14
- Proverbs 11:29 : Pr 14:19
- Proverbs 11:30 : S Ge 2:9; S Pr 10:11
- Proverbs 11:31 : Jer 25:29; 49:12; 1Pe 4:18
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1. The kind heart (16-23)
The kindhearted woman gains honor and benefits herself. But a beautiful woman with no discretion is like a pig with a gold ring in its nose. The ruthless man is cruel and he brings ruin on himself. The wise man sows kindness and he reaps a sure reward, life. The wicked man pursues unrighteousness and finds death. The Good Samaritan was kind even to a stranger (Lk 10:30-37). The high priest and the Levi were unkind to the needy. Our Lord Jesus was a gentle and kindhearted shepherd. The Lord detests the unkind but he delights in the righteous whose heart is kind.
2. Give freely to win souls (24-31)
Christianity begins with God who gave his one and only son as a sacrificial Lamb. When we freely give the word of God, love and any material, we will gain even more. The wise refresh others and God refreshes them. The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life. He wins souls. But the wicked withholds unduly, hoards grain but comes to poverty. He will be the servant of the wise.
Prayer: Lord, you reward each according to what he sows. Let me be kind and give like my Lord and bear the fruit of life.
One Word: Be kind, give and win souls