Proverbs , Sarah Barry
A FRIEND LOVES AT ALL TIMES
Passage: Proverbs 17:1~28  
Key verse: 17
17 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet
than a house full of feasting, with strife.(A)
2 A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son
and will share the inheritance as one of the family.
4 A wicked person listens to deceitful lips;
a liar pays attention to a destructive tongue.
5 Whoever mocks the poor(D) shows contempt for their Maker;(E)
whoever gloats over disaster(F) will not go unpunished.(G)
6 Children’s children(H) are a crown to the aged,
and parents are the pride of their children.
7 Eloquent lips are unsuited to a godless fool—
how much worse lying lips to a ruler!(I)
8 A bribe is seen as a charm by the one who gives it;
they think success will come at every turn.(J)
9 Whoever would foster love covers over an offense,(K)
but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.(L)
10 A rebuke impresses a discerning person
more than a hundred lashes a fool.
11 Evildoers foster rebellion against God;
the messenger of death will be sent against them.
12 Better to meet a bear robbed of her cubs
than a fool bent on folly.(M)
14 Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam;
so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.(P)
16 Why should fools have money in hand to buy wisdom,
when they are not able to understand it?(S)
17 A friend loves at all times,
and a brother is born for a time of adversity.(T)
18 One who has no sense shakes hands in pledge
and puts up security for a neighbor.(U)
19 Whoever loves a quarrel loves sin;
whoever builds a high gate invites destruction.
20 One whose heart is corrupt does not prosper;
one whose tongue is perverse falls into trouble.
21 To have a fool for a child brings grief;
there is no joy for the parent of a godless fool.(V)
24 A discerning person keeps wisdom in view,
but a fool’s eyes(AA) wander to the ends of the earth.
25 A foolish son brings grief to his father
and bitterness to the mother who bore him.(AB)
26 If imposing a fine on the innocent is not good,(AC)
surely to flog honest officials is not right.
27 The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint,(AD)
and whoever has understanding is even-tempered.(AE)
28 Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent,
and discerning if they hold their tongues.(AF)
Cross references
- Proverbs 17:1 : S Pr 15:16, 17; S 16:8
- Proverbs 17:3 : Pr 27:21
- Proverbs 17:3 : S 1Ch 29:17; Ps 26:2; S 139:23; 1Pe 1:7
- Proverbs 17:5 : S Job 5:16
- Proverbs 17:5 : Pr 14:31
- Proverbs 17:5 : S Job 31:29
- Proverbs 17:5 : Eze 25:3; Ob 1:12
- Proverbs 17:6 : S Ps 128:5-6
- Proverbs 17:7 : Pr 16:10
- Proverbs 17:8 : S Ex 23:8; Pr 19:6
- Proverbs 17:9 : S Pr 10:12
- Proverbs 17:9 : Pr 16:28
- Proverbs 17:12 : S 1Sa 25:25
- Proverbs 17:13 : S 1Sa 19:4
- Proverbs 17:13 : S Ge 44:4; S Ps 35:12
- Proverbs 17:14 : Mt 5:25-26
- Proverbs 17:15 : S Ps 94:21; S Pr 18:5
- Proverbs 17:15 : Ex 23:6-7; Isa 5:23; La 3:34-36
- Proverbs 17:16 : Pr 23:23
- Proverbs 17:17 : S 2Sa 15:21; Pr 27:10
- Proverbs 17:18 : Pr 6:1-5; S 11:15; 22:26-27
- Proverbs 17:21 : S Pr 10:1
- Proverbs 17:22 : S Ps 38:8
- Proverbs 17:22 : S Ex 12:46; Pr 14:30; S 15:13; 18:14
- Proverbs 17:23 : S Ex 18:21; S 23:8; S 1Sa 8:3
- Proverbs 17:23 : S Job 34:33
- Proverbs 17:24 : S Job 31:1
- Proverbs 17:25 : S Pr 10:1
- Proverbs 17:26 : S Ps 94:21
- Proverbs 17:27 : S Job 6:24
- Proverbs 17:27 : S Pr 14:29
- Proverbs 17:28 : S Job 2:13; 13:5; S Pr 10:19
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Many couples suffer from fighting in their homes (1). Many children rebel without thinking about the consequences (2). There are divisions in society and corruption in politics that create dissension. What is the solution? We can foster love or rebellion. Verse 17 says that a friend loves at all times. Brothers have no choice but to be brothers. But you choose your friends. And you decide to love your friends at all times by faith. Then, even brothers can be friends and help each other instead of fighting with each other.
Evil and corruption break bonds and destroy communities. But those who love cheerfully bring healing. Those who seek knowledge and understanding show restraint and have high emotional intelligence. They protect and preserve the unity that strengthens us all.
Prayer: Father, thank you for our Friend Jesus who loved us at all times. Help us to have knowledge and understanding to restrain ourselves and practice your love at all times.
One Word: A friend who loves at all times