Proverbs , Sarah Barry
A FRIEND WHO IS CLOSER THAN A BROTHER
Passage: Proverbs 18:1~24  
Key verse: 24
18 An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends
and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.
2 Fools find no pleasure in understanding
but delight in airing their own opinions.(A)
3 When wickedness comes, so does contempt,
and with shame comes reproach.
4 The words of the mouth are deep waters,(B)
but the fountain of wisdom is a rushing stream.
6 The lips of fools bring them strife,
and their mouths invite a beating.(E)
8 The words of a gossip are like choice morsels;
they go down to the inmost parts.(H)
9 One who is slack in his work
is brother to one who destroys.(I)
11 The wealth of the rich is their fortified city;(L)
they imagine it a wall too high to scale.
12 Before a downfall the heart is haughty,
but humility comes before honor.(M)
13 To answer before listening—
that is folly and shame.(N)
14 The human spirit can endure in sickness,
but a crushed spirit who can bear?(O)
15 The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge,(P)
for the ears of the wise seek it out.
16 A gift(Q) opens the way
and ushers the giver into the presence of the great.
17 In a lawsuit the first to speak seems right,
until someone comes forward and cross-examines.
18 Casting the lot settles disputes(R)
and keeps strong opponents apart.
19 A brother wronged(S) is more unyielding than a fortified city;
disputes are like the barred gates of a citadel.
20 From the fruit of their mouth a person’s stomach is filled;
with the harvest of their lips they are satisfied.(T)
23 The poor plead for mercy,
but the rich answer harshly.
24 One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin,
but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.(Y)
Cross references
- Proverbs 18:2 : S Pr 12:23
- Proverbs 18:4 : S Ps 18:16
- Proverbs 18:5 : Pr 24:23-25; 28:21
- Proverbs 18:5 : S Ps 82:2; S Pr 17:15
- Proverbs 18:6 : S Pr 10:14
- Proverbs 18:7 : Ps 140:9
- Proverbs 18:7 : S Ps 64:8; S Pr 10:14; S 12:13; S 13:3; Ecc 10:12
- Proverbs 18:8 : Pr 26:22
- Proverbs 18:9 : Pr 28:24
- Proverbs 18:10 : S Ps 61:3
- Proverbs 18:10 : S Ps 20:1; Pr 14:26
- Proverbs 18:11 : Pr 10:15
- Proverbs 18:12 : S Pr 11:2; 15:33; S 16:18
- Proverbs 18:13 : Pr 20:25
- Proverbs 18:14 : S Pr 15:13; S 17:22
- Proverbs 18:15 : S Pr 15:14
- Proverbs 18:16 : S Ge 32:13; S 1Sa 10:4; Pr 19:6
- Proverbs 18:18 : S Pr 16:33
- Proverbs 18:19 : S 1Sa 17:28
- Proverbs 18:20 : S Pr 12:14
- Proverbs 18:21 : S Ps 12:4
- Proverbs 18:21 : Pr 13:2-3; S Mt 12:37
- Proverbs 18:22 : S Pr 12:4
- Proverbs 18:22 : S Job 33:26; Pr 19:14; 31:10
- Proverbs 18:24 : S 1Sa 20:42; Jn 15:13-15
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What do you do when you confront wickedness and injustice (5)? We should not be passive, nor join in. We need to run to the Lord Jesus, and he becomes a strong tower to protect us (10). Proud people rely on money or themselves. But those who humbly rely on Jesus will be honored over others (12).
An angry brother can be unyielding not wanting to lose to his brother (19). But there is a friend who is closer than a brother (24). He is Jesus. He knows us and understands us and is ready to forgive. People can be good, like a prudent wife (22), and people can be harsh, like a stingy, rich person (23). Sometimes friends can be unreliable (24), and sometimes our family can’t be there to help us in our deep despair (14). But Jesus is our Faithful Friend. He is always there and speaks to us the words of life. Thank you, Jesus, for always being close to me.
Prayer: Father, thank you for Jesus who is my closest Friend. Help me to trust in Him.
One Word: What a Friend we have in Jesus!