Introduction to Philemon, Ron Ward
I AM SENDING HIM BACK TO YOU
Passage: Philemon 1:12~25  
Key verse: 15,16
12 I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13 I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains(A) for the gospel. 14 But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would not seem forced(B) but would be voluntary. 15 Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever— 16 no longer as a slave,(C) but better than a slave, as a dear brother.(D) He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord.
17 So if you consider me a partner,(E) welcome him as you would welcome me. 18 If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me.(F) 19 I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand.(G) I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20 I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh(H) my heart in Christ. 21 Confident(I) of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.
22 And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be(J) restored to you in answer to your prayers.(K)
23 Epaphras,(L) my fellow prisoner(M) in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings. 24 And so do Mark,(N) Aristarchus,(O) Demas(P) and Luke, my fellow workers.(Q)
25 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.(R)
Cross references
- Philemon 1:13 : ver 10; S Ac 21:33
- Philemon 1:14 : 2Co 9:7; 1Pe 5:2
- Philemon 1:16 : 1Co 7:22
- Philemon 1:16 : Mt 23:8; S Ac 1:16; 1Ti 6:2
- Philemon 1:17 : 2Co 8:23
- Philemon 1:18 : Ge 43:9
- Philemon 1:19 : S 1Co 16:21
- Philemon 1:20 : ver 7; 1Co 16:18
- Philemon 1:21 : S 2Co 2:3
- Philemon 1:22 : Php 1:25; 2:24; Heb 13:19
- Philemon 1:22 : 2Co 1:11; Php 1:19
- Philemon 1:23 : Col 1:7
- Philemon 1:23 : ver 1; Ro 16:7; Col 4:10
- Philemon 1:24 : S Ac 12:12
- Philemon 1:24 : S Ac 19:29
- Philemon 1:24 : Col 4:14; 2Ti 4:10
- Philemon 1:24 : ver 1
- Philemon 1:25 : S Gal 6:18
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1. As a dear brother
Paul was sending the runaway slave Onesimus back to his master Philemon. It was hard for him to do this, because he had come to love Onesimus like a son. But before Onesimus could serve Jesus freely, and serve Paul, he had to go back and settle accounts with his master. When a man meets Jesus, he gets the courage to face old problems and solve them.
2. Refresh my heart in Christ
Paul did not directly command Philemon to set Onesimus free. He appealed to him as a partner in the gospel, a co-worker. He asked him to welcome this slave, not as a slave, but as a man and brother in the Lord. Paul regards Philemon as a partner in the gospel. He asks him to welcome Onesimus as he would welcome Paul himself. He offered to pay his debts. Paul also hints that he is coming for a visit soon.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for real freedom in Jesus. Help me to solve old problems through faith in him.
One Word: Not a slave but a brother