Introduction to Philemon, Ron Ward
A BROTHER RECONCILED
Passage: Philemon 1:1~25  
Key verse: 17
1 Paul, a prisoner(A) of Christ Jesus, and Timothy(B) our brother,(C)
To Philemon our dear friend and fellow worker(D)— 2 also to Apphia our sister and Archippus(E) our fellow soldier(F)—and to the church that meets in your home:(G)
3 Grace and peace to you[a] from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.(H)
Thanksgiving and Prayer
4 I always thank my God(I) as I remember you in my prayers,(J) 5 because I hear about your love for all his holy people(K) and your faith in the Lord Jesus.(L) 6 I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7 Your love has given me great joy and encouragement,(M) because you, brother, have refreshed(N) the hearts of the Lord’s people.
Paul’s Plea for Onesimus
8 Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9 yet I prefer to appeal to you(O) on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner(P) of Christ Jesus— 10 that I appeal to you for my son(Q) Onesimus,[b](R) who became my son while I was in chains.(S) 11 Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.
12 I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13 I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains(T) for the gospel. 14 But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would not seem forced(U) but would be voluntary. 15 Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever— 16 no longer as a slave,(V) but better than a slave, as a dear brother.(W) He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord.
17 So if you consider me a partner,(X) welcome him as you would welcome me. 18 If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me.(Y) 19 I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand.(Z) I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20 I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh(AA) my heart in Christ. 21 Confident(AB) of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.
22 And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be(AC) restored to you in answer to your prayers.(AD)
23 Epaphras,(AE) my fellow prisoner(AF) in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings. 24 And so do Mark,(AG) Aristarchus,(AH) Demas(AI) and Luke, my fellow workers.(AJ)
25 The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.(AK)
Footnotes
- Philemon 1:3 The Greek is plural; also in verses 22 and 25; elsewhere in this letter “you” is singular.
- Philemon 1:10 Onesimus means useful.
Cross references
- Philemon 1:1 : ver 9, 23; S Eph 3:1
- Philemon 1:1 : S Ac 16:1
- Philemon 1:1 : 2Co 1:1
- Philemon 1:1 : S Php 2:25
- Philemon 1:2 : Col 4:17
- Philemon 1:2 : Php 2:25
- Philemon 1:2 : S Ro 16:5
- Philemon 1:3 : S Ro 1:7
- Philemon 1:4 : S Ro 1:8
- Philemon 1:4 : S Ro 1:10
- Philemon 1:5 : S Col 1:4; 1Th 3:6
- Philemon 1:5 : S Ac 20:21
- Philemon 1:7 : 2Co 7:4, 13
- Philemon 1:7 : ver 20; Ro 15:32; 1Co 16:18
- Philemon 1:9 : 1Co 1:10
- Philemon 1:9 : ver 1, 23; S Eph 3:1
- Philemon 1:10 : S 1Th 2:11
- Philemon 1:10 : Col 4:9
- Philemon 1:10 : S Ac 21:33
- Philemon 1:13 : ver 10; S Ac 21:33
- Philemon 1:14 : 2Co 9:7; 1Pe 5:2
- Philemon 1:16 : 1Co 7:22
- Philemon 1:16 : Mt 23:8; S Ac 1:16; 1Ti 6:2
- Philemon 1:17 : 2Co 8:23
- Philemon 1:18 : Ge 43:9
- Philemon 1:19 : S 1Co 16:21
- Philemon 1:20 : ver 7; 1Co 16:18
- Philemon 1:21 : S 2Co 2:3
- Philemon 1:22 : Php 1:25; 2:24; Heb 13:19
- Philemon 1:22 : 2Co 1:11; Php 1:19
- Philemon 1:23 : Col 1:7
- Philemon 1:23 : ver 1; Ro 16:7; Col 4:10
- Philemon 1:24 : S Ac 12:12
- Philemon 1:24 : S Ac 19:29
- Philemon 1:24 : Col 4:14; 2Ti 4:10
- Philemon 1:24 : ver 1
- Philemon 1:25 : S Gal 6:18
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Paul wrote this epistle while in prison, around 60 A.D. The letter is addressed to Philemon who was the leader of a house church. Paul considered Philemon a partner in the faith and a brother. Philemon owed his very self to Paul and prayed for his release from prison. The epistle addresses a specific problem regarding Philemon's slave, Onesimus. Onesimus had done something injurious to his master. The slave left his master and ended up with Paul. God used this encounter to change Onesimus. He repented and became a Christian. Onesimus means 'useful'. He was changed from a useless man to a useful man. He became a great help to Paul during the apostle's imprisonment. Based on Onesimus' changed life and Paul's personal relationship with Philemon, Paul appeals for reconciliation. This was not merely restoring Onesimus as Philemon's slave. Paul urged Philemon to accept Onesimus as a brother in Christ. As we meditate on God's word in Philemon, may the gospel work in and through us to transform lives and relationships.
A BROTHER RECONCILED
1. Philemon's love and partnership (1-7)
Paul blessed Philemon and the church that met in his home with grace and peace. Paul thanked God for Philemon's love for God's people and his deep faith in Christ. Paul considered Philemon a partner in God's kingdom work. May the Lord help us to also be encouraging partners in gospel ministry.
2. Paul pleads for Onesimus (8-25)
Onesimus was Philemon's slave and had done something wrong against his master. He became a useless man. He left his master and met Paul. Onesimus became a Christian and a dear son to Paul. Paul appealed to Philemon, as a gospel partner, to accept Onesimus but this time as a brother. Relationships break because of sin but Jesus restores lives and relationships.
Prayer: Lord, I was once useless but thank you for making me useful in you. Help me to forgive and reconcile as you have done with me.
One Word: Accept him as a brother