Wisdom from Heaven, Jim Rabchuk
TAMING THE TONGUE
Passage: James 3:1~12  
Key verse: 7
Taming the Tongue
3 Not many of you should become teachers,(A) my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged(B) more strictly.(C) 2 We all stumble(D) in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say(E) is perfect,(F) able to keep their whole body in check.(G)
3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal.(H) 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.(I) Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire,(J) a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body,(K) sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.(L)
7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.(M)
9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.(N) 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs?(O) Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
Cross references
- James 3:1 : S Eph 4:11
- James 3:1 : S Mt 7:1
- James 3:1 : Ro 2:21
- James 3:2 : 1Ki 8:46; Ro 3:9-20; Jas 2:10; 1Jn 1:8
- James 3:2 : Ps 39:1; Pr 10:19; 1Pe 3:10
- James 3:2 : S Mt 12:37
- James 3:2 : Jas 1:26
- James 3:3 : Ps 32:9
- James 3:5 : Ps 12:3, 4; 73:8, 9
- James 3:6 : Pr 16:27
- James 3:6 : Mt 15:11, 18, 19
- James 3:6 : S Mt 5:22
- James 3:8 : Ps 140:3; Ro 3:13
- James 3:9 : Ge 1:26, 27; 1Co 11:7
- James 3:12 : Mt 7:16
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1. The tongue is a fire (1-6)
A person who can control his tongue can control himself in every other way. James says that the tongue is like a bit used to control a horse or like a rudder of a ship. However, no one has such control of himself. We who teach are judged more strictly, so we must confess our inadequacy and ask God's help. The tongue is small but it can start a great fire. A person can destroy his own life and the lives of others by saying hurtful or unnecessary things. What we deliberately teach others has great influence; what we say casually without much thought sometimes has even more. By our words we can plant doubt and cause someone to give up in despair; or we can plant faith and hope and courage.
2. No man can tame the tongue (7-12)
If we are double-minded, our words will reveal it. If we praise God and curse men made in God's image, our double-mindedness is exposed. I cannot tame my tongue, but God can change my heart, and 'out of the heart the mouth speaks' (Mt 15:18).
Prayer: Lord, change my inner life until my lips are used only to praise you and strengthen others.
One Word: Only God can tame my tongue