Wisdom from Heaven, Jim Rabchuk
CONTROLLING OUR TONGUES
Passage: James 3:1~12  
Key verse: 10
Taming the Tongue
3 Not many of you should become teachers,(A) my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged(B) more strictly.(C) 2 We all stumble(D) in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say(E) is perfect,(F) able to keep their whole body in check.(G)
3 When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal.(H) 4 Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5 Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.(I) Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire,(J) a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body,(K) sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.(L)
7 All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.(M)
9 With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.(N) 10 Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11 Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12 My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs?(O) Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
Cross references
- James 3:1 : S Eph 4:11
- James 3:1 : S Mt 7:1
- James 3:1 : Ro 2:21
- James 3:2 : 1Ki 8:46; Ro 3:9-20; Jas 2:10; 1Jn 1:8
- James 3:2 : Ps 39:1; Pr 10:19; 1Pe 3:10
- James 3:2 : S Mt 12:37
- James 3:2 : Jas 1:26
- James 3:3 : Ps 32:9
- James 3:5 : Ps 12:3, 4; 73:8, 9
- James 3:6 : Pr 16:27
- James 3:6 : Mt 15:11, 18, 19
- James 3:6 : S Mt 5:22
- James 3:8 : Ps 140:3; Ro 3:13
- James 3:9 : Ge 1:26, 27; 1Co 11:7
- James 3:12 : Mt 7:16
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1. The power of the tongue (1-6)
Bible teachers have tremendous influence over others and thus will be judged more strictly by God. Teaching is very difficult because it makes use of our powerful but uncontrollable tongues. Anyone whose speech is never at fault is perfect - but there is no such person. The tongue is relatively small, like a bit for a horse or a ship's rudder. But as those things can set a horse or ship's direction, so the tongue has power to steer a person's life direction. When uncontrolled, the tongue can corrupt our life and lead us to hell.
2. How do you use your tongue? (7-12)
No one can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, able to poison ourselves and others, with its words. The same tongue we use to praise God is also used to curse people. This should not be. A spring cannot bring forth both fresh and salt water. A plant cannot produce the fruit of a different plant. Likewise, our tongues should praise God and build up others with its words rather than tear others down. May God have mercy on our tongues!
Prayer: Lord Jesus, please forgive the sin that comes from my mouth. Take control of my tongue and help me to praise you and encourage others.
One Word: Tame your tongue