GOD WAS WITH JOSEPH, Sarah Barry
JUDAH AND TAMAR
Passage: Genesis 38:1~30  
Key verse: 26
Judah and Tamar
38 At that time, Judah(A) left his brothers and went down to stay with a man of Adullam(B) named Hirah.(C) 2 There Judah met the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua.(D) He married her and made love to her; 3 she became pregnant and gave birth to a son, who was named Er.(E) 4 She conceived again and gave birth to a son and named him Onan.(F) 5 She gave birth to still another son and named him Shelah.(G) It was at Kezib that she gave birth to him.
6 Judah got a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.(H) 7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the Lord’s sight;(I) so the Lord put him to death.(J)
8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise up offspring for your brother.”(K) 9 But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the Lord put him to death also.(L)
11 Judah then said to his daughter-in-law(M) Tamar,(N) “Live as a widow in your father’s household(O) until my son Shelah(P) grows up.”(Q) For he thought, “He may die too, just like his brothers.” So Tamar went to live in her father’s household.
12 After a long time Judah’s wife, the daughter of Shua,(R) died. When Judah had recovered from his grief, he went up to Timnah,(S) to the men who were shearing his sheep,(T) and his friend Hirah the Adullamite(U) went with him.
13 When Tamar(V) was told, “Your father-in-law is on his way to Timnah to shear his sheep,”(W) 14 she took off her widow’s clothes,(X) covered herself with a veil(Y) to disguise herself, and then sat down(Z) at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah.(AA) For she saw that, though Shelah(AB) had now grown up, she had not been given to him as his wife.
15 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute,(AC) for she had covered her face. 16 Not realizing(AD) that she was his daughter-in-law,(AE) he went over to her by the roadside and said, “Come now, let me sleep with you.”(AF)
“And what will you give me to sleep with you?”(AG) she asked.
17 “I’ll send you a young goat(AH) from my flock,” he said.
“Will you give me something as a pledge(AI) until you send it?” she asked.
18 He said, “What pledge should I give you?”
“Your seal(AJ) and its cord, and the staff(AK) in your hand,” she answered. So he gave them to her and slept with her, and she became pregnant by him.(AL) 19 After she left, she took off her veil and put on her widow’s clothes(AM) again.
20 Meanwhile Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite(AN) in order to get his pledge(AO) back from the woman, but he did not find her. 21 He asked the men who lived there, “Where is the shrine prostitute(AP) who was beside the road at Enaim?”
“There hasn’t been any shrine prostitute here,” they said.
22 So he went back to Judah and said, “I didn’t find her. Besides, the men who lived there said, ‘There hasn’t been any shrine prostitute here.’”
23 Then Judah said, “Let her keep what she has,(AQ) or we will become a laughingstock.(AR) After all, I did send her this young goat, but you didn’t find her.”
24 About three months later Judah was told, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar is guilty of prostitution, and as a result she is now pregnant.”
Judah said, “Bring her out and have her burned to death!”(AS)
25 As she was being brought out, she sent a message to her father-in-law. “I am pregnant by the man who owns these,” she said. And she added, “See if you recognize whose seal and cord and staff these are.”(AT)
26 Judah recognized them and said, “She is more righteous than I,(AU) since I wouldn’t give her to my son Shelah.(AV)” And he did not sleep with her again.
27 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb.(AW) 28 As she was giving birth, one of them put out his hand; so the midwife(AX) took a scarlet thread and tied it on his wrist(AY) and said, “This one came out first.” 29 But when he drew back his hand, his brother came out,(AZ) and she said, “So this is how you have broken out!” And he was named Perez.[a](BA) 30 Then his brother, who had the scarlet thread on his wrist,(BB) came out. And he was named Zerah.[b](BC)
Footnotes
- Genesis 38:29 Perez means breaking out.
- Genesis 38:30 Zerah can mean scarlet or brightness.
Cross references
- Genesis 38:1 : S Ge 29:35
- Genesis 38:1 : Jos 12:15; 15:35; 1Sa 22:1; 2Sa 23:13; 2Ch 11:7
- Genesis 38:1 : ver 12, 20
- Genesis 38:2 : ver 12; 1Ch 2:3
- Genesis 38:3 : ver 6; Ge 46:12; Nu 26:19
- Genesis 38:4 : ver 8, 9; Ge 46:12; Nu 26:19
- Genesis 38:5 : Nu 26:20
- Genesis 38:6 : ver 11, 13
- Genesis 38:7 : S Ge 6:5
- Genesis 38:7 : ver 10; Ge 46:12; Lev 10:1-2; 1Ch 2:3
- Genesis 38:8 : Dt 25:5-6; Ru 4:5; Mt 22:24-28
- Genesis 38:10 : S ver 7; Dt 25:7-10
- Genesis 38:11 : S Ge 11:31
- Genesis 38:11 : S ver 6
- Genesis 38:11 : Ru 1:8
- Genesis 38:11 : ver 14, 26
- Genesis 38:11 : Ru 1:13
- Genesis 38:12 : S ver 2
- Genesis 38:12 : ver 14; Jos 15:10, 57; 19:43; Jdg 14:1, 2; 2Ch 28:18
- Genesis 38:12 : S Ge 31:19
- Genesis 38:12 : S ver 1
- Genesis 38:13 : S ver 6
- Genesis 38:13 : S Ge 31:19
- Genesis 38:14 : ver 19
- Genesis 38:14 : S Ge 24:65
- Genesis 38:14 : Jer 3:2
- Genesis 38:14 : S ver 12
- Genesis 38:14 : S ver 11
- Genesis 38:15 : Jdg 11:1; 16:1
- Genesis 38:16 : Ge 42:23
- Genesis 38:16 : Lev 18:15; 20:12; Ru 1:6
- Genesis 38:16 : Ge 39:7, 12; 2Sa 13:11
- Genesis 38:16 : S Ge 30:15
- Genesis 38:17 : Jdg 15:1
- Genesis 38:17 : ver 20
- Genesis 38:18 : ver 25; 1Ki 21:8; Est 3:12; 8:8; SS 8:6; Isa 49:16; Jer 22:24; Hag 2:23; 2Co 1:22; Eph 1:13
- Genesis 38:18 : S Ge 32:10; S Ex 4:2
- Genesis 38:18 : S Ge 19:32
- Genesis 38:19 : ver 14
- Genesis 38:20 : S ver 1
- Genesis 38:20 : ver 17
- Genesis 38:21 : S Ge 19:5; Lev 19:29; Dt 22:21; 23:17; 2Ki 23:7; Hos 4:14
- Genesis 38:23 : ver 18
- Genesis 38:23 : Ex 32:25; Job 12:4; Jer 20:7; La 3:14
- Genesis 38:24 : Lev 20:10, 14; 21:9; Dt 22:21, 22; Jos 7:25; Jdg 15:6; 1Sa 31:12; Job 31:11, 28; Eze 16:38
- Genesis 38:25 : S ver 18
- Genesis 38:26 : 1Sa 24:17
- Genesis 38:26 : S ver 11
- Genesis 38:27 : Ge 25:24
- Genesis 38:28 : S Ge 35:17
- Genesis 38:28 : ver 30
- Genesis 38:29 : Ge 25:26
- Genesis 38:29 : Ge 46:12; Nu 26:20, 21; Ru 4:12, 18; 2Sa 5:20; 6:8; 1Ch 2:4; 9:4; Isa 28:21; Mt 1:3
- Genesis 38:30 : ver 28
- Genesis 38:30 : Ge 46:12; 1Ch 2:4; Ne 11:24
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1. Judah's life among the Canaanites (1-11)
After committing a terrible crime against his father and brother, Judah couldn't endure being at home. So he left and went to live with the Canaanites. He married and had three sons. He raised them as Canaanites. He might never have returned home, except for the unusual faithfulness of Tamar.
2. She is more righteous than I (12-30)
Judah got a wife named Tamar for his eldest son. His son was wicked and died. According to the levirate law, Judah's second son should marry his brother's widow. But the second son also died. Judah then reneged on his promise to Tamar and left her as a barren widow in her father's house. She was determined to fulfill her duty to that family. By her strange faith, she became pregnant by her father-in-law. When Judah realized what she had done, he was moved by her faithfulness. He returned to his father's house and to God's history.
Prayer: Lord, teach me to have courageous faith, and help me to be faithful to you.
One Word: Righteousness by faith