GOD WAS WITH JOSEPH, Sarah Barry
JUDAH AND TAMAR
Passage: Genesis 38:1~30  
Key verse: 26
Judah and Tamar
38 At that time, Judah(A) left his brothers and went down to stay with a man of Adullam(B) named Hirah.(C) 2 There Judah met the daughter of a Canaanite man named Shua.(D) He married her and made love to her; 3 she became pregnant and gave birth to a son, who was named Er.(E) 4 She conceived again and gave birth to a son and named him Onan.(F) 5 She gave birth to still another son and named him Shelah.(G) It was at Kezib that she gave birth to him.
6 Judah got a wife for Er, his firstborn, and her name was Tamar.(H) 7 But Er, Judah’s firstborn, was wicked in the Lord’s sight;(I) so the Lord put him to death.(J)
8 Then Judah said to Onan, “Sleep with your brother’s wife and fulfill your duty to her as a brother-in-law to raise up offspring for your brother.”(K) 9 But Onan knew that the child would not be his; so whenever he slept with his brother’s wife, he spilled his semen on the ground to keep from providing offspring for his brother. 10 What he did was wicked in the Lord’s sight; so the Lord put him to death also.(L)
11 Judah then said to his daughter-in-law(M) Tamar,(N) “Live as a widow in your father’s household(O) until my son Shelah(P) grows up.”(Q) For he thought, “He may die too, just like his brothers.” So Tamar went to live in her father’s household.
12 After a long time Judah’s wife, the daughter of Shua,(R) died. When Judah had recovered from his grief, he went up to Timnah,(S) to the men who were shearing his sheep,(T) and his friend Hirah the Adullamite(U) went with him.
13 When Tamar(V) was told, “Your father-in-law is on his way to Timnah to shear his sheep,”(W) 14 she took off her widow’s clothes,(X) covered herself with a veil(Y) to disguise herself, and then sat down(Z) at the entrance to Enaim, which is on the road to Timnah.(AA) For she saw that, though Shelah(AB) had now grown up, she had not been given to him as his wife.
15 When Judah saw her, he thought she was a prostitute,(AC) for she had covered her face. 16 Not realizing(AD) that she was his daughter-in-law,(AE) he went over to her by the roadside and said, “Come now, let me sleep with you.”(AF)
“And what will you give me to sleep with you?”(AG) she asked.
17 “I’ll send you a young goat(AH) from my flock,” he said.
“Will you give me something as a pledge(AI) until you send it?” she asked.
18 He said, “What pledge should I give you?”
“Your seal(AJ) and its cord, and the staff(AK) in your hand,” she answered. So he gave them to her and slept with her, and she became pregnant by him.(AL) 19 After she left, she took off her veil and put on her widow’s clothes(AM) again.
20 Meanwhile Judah sent the young goat by his friend the Adullamite(AN) in order to get his pledge(AO) back from the woman, but he did not find her. 21 He asked the men who lived there, “Where is the shrine prostitute(AP) who was beside the road at Enaim?”
“There hasn’t been any shrine prostitute here,” they said.
22 So he went back to Judah and said, “I didn’t find her. Besides, the men who lived there said, ‘There hasn’t been any shrine prostitute here.’”
23 Then Judah said, “Let her keep what she has,(AQ) or we will become a laughingstock.(AR) After all, I did send her this young goat, but you didn’t find her.”
24 About three months later Judah was told, “Your daughter-in-law Tamar is guilty of prostitution, and as a result she is now pregnant.”
Judah said, “Bring her out and have her burned to death!”(AS)
25 As she was being brought out, she sent a message to her father-in-law. “I am pregnant by the man who owns these,” she said. And she added, “See if you recognize whose seal and cord and staff these are.”(AT)
26 Judah recognized them and said, “She is more righteous than I,(AU) since I wouldn’t give her to my son Shelah.(AV)” And he did not sleep with her again.
27 When the time came for her to give birth, there were twin boys in her womb.(AW) 28 As she was giving birth, one of them put out his hand; so the midwife(AX) took a scarlet thread and tied it on his wrist(AY) and said, “This one came out first.” 29 But when he drew back his hand, his brother came out,(AZ) and she said, “So this is how you have broken out!” And he was named Perez.[a](BA) 30 Then his brother, who had the scarlet thread on his wrist,(BB) came out. And he was named Zerah.[b](BC)
Footnotes
- Genesis 38:29 Perez means breaking out.
- Genesis 38:30 Zerah can mean scarlet or brightness.
Cross references
- Genesis 38:1 : S Ge 29:35
- Genesis 38:1 : Jos 12:15; 15:35; 1Sa 22:1; 2Sa 23:13; 2Ch 11:7
- Genesis 38:1 : ver 12, 20
- Genesis 38:2 : ver 12; 1Ch 2:3
- Genesis 38:3 : ver 6; Ge 46:12; Nu 26:19
- Genesis 38:4 : ver 8, 9; Ge 46:12; Nu 26:19
- Genesis 38:5 : Nu 26:20
- Genesis 38:6 : ver 11, 13
- Genesis 38:7 : S Ge 6:5
- Genesis 38:7 : ver 10; Ge 46:12; Lev 10:1-2; 1Ch 2:3
- Genesis 38:8 : Dt 25:5-6; Ru 4:5; Mt 22:24-28
- Genesis 38:10 : S ver 7; Dt 25:7-10
- Genesis 38:11 : S Ge 11:31
- Genesis 38:11 : S ver 6
- Genesis 38:11 : Ru 1:8
- Genesis 38:11 : ver 14, 26
- Genesis 38:11 : Ru 1:13
- Genesis 38:12 : S ver 2
- Genesis 38:12 : ver 14; Jos 15:10, 57; 19:43; Jdg 14:1, 2; 2Ch 28:18
- Genesis 38:12 : S Ge 31:19
- Genesis 38:12 : S ver 1
- Genesis 38:13 : S ver 6
- Genesis 38:13 : S Ge 31:19
- Genesis 38:14 : ver 19
- Genesis 38:14 : S Ge 24:65
- Genesis 38:14 : Jer 3:2
- Genesis 38:14 : S ver 12
- Genesis 38:14 : S ver 11
- Genesis 38:15 : Jdg 11:1; 16:1
- Genesis 38:16 : Ge 42:23
- Genesis 38:16 : Lev 18:15; 20:12; Ru 1:6
- Genesis 38:16 : Ge 39:7, 12; 2Sa 13:11
- Genesis 38:16 : S Ge 30:15
- Genesis 38:17 : Jdg 15:1
- Genesis 38:17 : ver 20
- Genesis 38:18 : ver 25; 1Ki 21:8; Est 3:12; 8:8; SS 8:6; Isa 49:16; Jer 22:24; Hag 2:23; 2Co 1:22; Eph 1:13
- Genesis 38:18 : S Ge 32:10; S Ex 4:2
- Genesis 38:18 : S Ge 19:32
- Genesis 38:19 : ver 14
- Genesis 38:20 : S ver 1
- Genesis 38:20 : ver 17
- Genesis 38:21 : S Ge 19:5; Lev 19:29; Dt 22:21; 23:17; 2Ki 23:7; Hos 4:14
- Genesis 38:23 : ver 18
- Genesis 38:23 : Ex 32:25; Job 12:4; Jer 20:7; La 3:14
- Genesis 38:24 : Lev 20:10, 14; 21:9; Dt 22:21, 22; Jos 7:25; Jdg 15:6; 1Sa 31:12; Job 31:11, 28; Eze 16:38
- Genesis 38:25 : S ver 18
- Genesis 38:26 : 1Sa 24:17
- Genesis 38:26 : S ver 11
- Genesis 38:27 : Ge 25:24
- Genesis 38:28 : S Ge 35:17
- Genesis 38:28 : ver 30
- Genesis 38:29 : Ge 25:26
- Genesis 38:29 : Ge 46:12; Nu 26:20, 21; Ru 4:12, 18; 2Sa 5:20; 6:8; 1Ch 2:4; 9:4; Isa 28:21; Mt 1:3
- Genesis 38:30 : ver 28
- Genesis 38:30 : Ge 46:12; 1Ch 2:4; Ne 11:24
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1. Judah's three sons and Tamar (1-11)
After Joseph was sold to Egypt, Judah might have been upset. He went out further from his brothers. He even married a Canaanite woman and had three sons. Er, his first son got married Tamar, but the Lord put him to death for his wickedness. Onan married her to keep the Levirate marriage law. But God put him to death too for not allowing Tamar to become pregnant. Judah was afraid of losing the third son too. So he sent Tamar to her parents pledging to give Shelah later.
2. Tamar bore Perez and Zerah (12-30)
When Judah did not keep his pledge, Tamar disguised herself and slept with Judah. It was to be faithful to her dead husband according to the law of God. God blessed her to become pregnant. Judah at first wanted to put her to death according to God's law. But he found she was more righteous than him. Thus, twin boys, Perez and Zerah were born. Tamar is the great grandmother of David. Perez is the ancestor of David and the Messiah, Jesus Christ. God kept his redemptive history through a faithful woman. God showed his mercy in the midst of the sinful natures of his chosen people.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for your mercy for sending the Messiah through a faithful woman's line.
One Word: God is merciful