Proverbs , Sarah Barry
WISDOM IN DEALING WITH PEOPLE
Passage: Proverbs 3:27~35  
Key verse: 35
27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
when it is in your power to act.
28 Do not say to your neighbor,
“Come back tomorrow and I’ll give it to you”—
when you already have it with you.(A)
29 Do not plot harm against your neighbor,
who lives trustfully near you.(B)
30 Do not accuse anyone for no reason—
when they have done you no harm.
31 Do not envy(C) the violent
or choose any of their ways.
32 For the Lord detests the perverse(D)
but takes the upright into his confidence.(E)
33 The Lord’s curse(F) is on the house of the wicked,(G)
but he blesses the home of the righteous.(H)
34 He mocks(I) proud mockers(J)
but shows favor to the humble(K) and oppressed.
35 The wise inherit honor,
but fools get only shame.
Cross references
- Proverbs 3:28 : Lev 19:13; Dt 24:15; Lk 10:25-37
- Proverbs 3:29 : Zec 8:17
- Proverbs 3:31 : S Ps 37:1; Pr 24:1-2
- Proverbs 3:32 : S Ps 101:4
- Proverbs 3:32 : S Job 29:4
- Proverbs 3:33 : S Job 5:3
- Proverbs 3:33 : Zec 5:4
- Proverbs 3:33 : Ps 37:22; Pr 14:11
- Proverbs 3:34 : S 2Ki 19:21
- Proverbs 3:34 : S Ps 40:4
- Proverbs 3:34 : S Ps 18:25-27; S Mt 23:12; Jas 4:6*; 1Pe 5:5*
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How we treat our neighbor requires wisdom. We should assist our neighbor within our power to do so (27). We should not do anything evil to our neighbor, betraying their trust. We should give generously and freely to our neighbors instead of avoiding them when they need help.
We shouldn’t fight with others for petty reasons. We should not envy violent people who abuse others to get their own way. We should know that those who are wicked are cursed, but the righteous are indeed blessed. God lifts up the humble and scorns the proud (34). God honors those who act wisely in their relationships with others. Are you struggling with others? Ask God for his wisdom to act honorably and be blessed by him.
Prayer: Father, thank you for giving me wisdom on how to interact with people. Please help me to be wise and honorable, trusting you to bless me.
One Word: Be wise and honorable in my relationships with people