HOW TO LIVE TO PLEASE GOD, Ron Ward
LIVE TO PLEASE GOD
Passage: 1Thessalonians 4:1~12  
Key verse: 1
Living to Please God
4 As for other matters, brothers and sisters,(A) we instructed you how to live(B) in order to please God,(C) as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
3 It is God’s will(D) that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;(E) 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a](F) in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust(G) like the pagans,(H) who do not know God;(I) 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.[b](J) The Lord will punish(K) all those who commit such sins,(L) as we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.(M) 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.(N)
9 Now about your love for one another(O) we do not need to write to you,(P) for you yourselves have been taught by God(Q) to love each other.(R) 10 And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia.(S) Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more,(T) 11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands,(U) just as we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders(V) and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
Footnotes
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 Or learn to live with your own wife; or learn to acquire a wife
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 The Greek word for brother or sister (adelphos) refers here to a believer, whether man or woman, as part of God’s family.
Cross references
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : 2Co 13:11; 2Th 3:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S Eph 4:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S 2Co 5:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S Eph 5:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S 1Co 6:18
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 : 1Co 7:2, 9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Ro 1:26
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Eph 4:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : S Gal 4:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Lev 25:17; 1Co 6:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Dt 32:35; Ps 94:1; Ro 2:5-11; 12:19; Heb 10:30, 31
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Heb 13:4
- 1 Thessalonians 4:7 : Lev 11:44; 1Pe 1:15
- 1 Thessalonians 4:8 : Eze 36:27; Ro 5:5; 2Co 1:22; Gal 4:6; 1Jn 3:24
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Ro 12:10
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : 1Th 5:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 6:45
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 13:34
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S Ac 16:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S 1Th 3:12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:11 : Eph 4:28; 2Th 3:10-12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:12 : S Mk 4:11
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1. Live a holy life (1-8)
Sexual immorality was so widespread that it seemed unreasonable to expect anyone to live a pure life. But Paul didn't think so. God's people must live to please God; they don't have to follow the pattern of the world. No one who indulges in sexual immorality can please God. No one should allow himself or herself to be controlled by lust or passion--even in the marriage relationship. No one should allow his physical desire to destroy his relations with another believer. Controlling one's own body includes proper diet and exercise. God called us to live pure lives.
2. Brotherly love (9-12)
Genuine love is different from the lustful feelings that godless people call love. Real love is practical. It means being concerned about the needs of another. Real love builds up. In a godless, hostile environment, we must live quietly and work hard so that our daily lives may win the respect even of unbelievers; we should not be dependent on others for our material necessities.
Prayer: Lord, help me to live a life that pleases you.
One Word: Live to please God, not myself