HOW TO LIVE TO PLEASE GOD, Ron Ward
INSTRUCTIONS ABOUT HOLY LIVING
Passage: 1Thessalonians 4:1~12  
Key verse: 7
Living to Please God
4 As for other matters, brothers and sisters,(A) we instructed you how to live(B) in order to please God,(C) as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
3 It is God’s will(D) that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;(E) 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a](F) in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust(G) like the pagans,(H) who do not know God;(I) 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.[b](J) The Lord will punish(K) all those who commit such sins,(L) as we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.(M) 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.(N)
9 Now about your love for one another(O) we do not need to write to you,(P) for you yourselves have been taught by God(Q) to love each other.(R) 10 And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia.(S) Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more,(T) 11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands,(U) just as we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders(V) and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
Footnotes
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 Or learn to live with your own wife; or learn to acquire a wife
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 The Greek word for brother or sister (adelphos) refers here to a believer, whether man or woman, as part of God’s family.
Cross references
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : 2Co 13:11; 2Th 3:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S Eph 4:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S 2Co 5:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S Eph 5:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S 1Co 6:18
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 : 1Co 7:2, 9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Ro 1:26
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Eph 4:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : S Gal 4:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Lev 25:17; 1Co 6:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Dt 32:35; Ps 94:1; Ro 2:5-11; 12:19; Heb 10:30, 31
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Heb 13:4
- 1 Thessalonians 4:7 : Lev 11:44; 1Pe 1:15
- 1 Thessalonians 4:8 : Eze 36:27; Ro 5:5; 2Co 1:22; Gal 4:6; 1Jn 3:24
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Ro 12:10
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : 1Th 5:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 6:45
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 13:34
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S Ac 16:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S 1Th 3:12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:11 : Eph 4:28; 2Th 3:10-12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:12 : S Mk 4:11
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1. You should be sanctified (1-8)
By the authority of the Lord Jesus, the apostles had instructed the Thessalonians about pleasing God. Now they urged them ever more to obey these instructions. God's will for them was to be sanctified, which included avoiding sexual immorality. They were to control their own bodies. They were to be honorable and holy toward their brothers and sisters and themselves. God will punish those who continue to live in passionate lust. God still calls us today to live a pure and holy life.
2. Love each other even more (9-12)
The Thessalonians were urged to love one another more and more. Loving others was something very practical. They were not to be busybodies, gossips and a burden on others. Instead they were to live a quiet life, mind their own business and work with their hands. This was the apostles' own example. Such a lifestyle would leave no room for criticism but could win the respect of outsiders.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for calling me to live a holy life. Reflect your holiness and love in my body and in my relationships with others.
One Word: Called to a holy life