HOW TO LIVE TO PLEASE GOD, Ron Ward
LIVE TO PLEASE GOD
Passage: 1_Thessalonians 4:1~12  
Key verse: 1
Living to Please God
4 As for other matters, brothers and sisters,(A) we instructed you how to live(B) in order to please God,(C) as in fact you are living. Now we ask you and urge you in the Lord Jesus to do this more and more. 2 For you know what instructions we gave you by the authority of the Lord Jesus.
3 It is God’s will(D) that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality;(E) 4 that each of you should learn to control your own body[a](F) in a way that is holy and honorable, 5 not in passionate lust(G) like the pagans,(H) who do not know God;(I) 6 and that in this matter no one should wrong or take advantage of a brother or sister.[b](J) The Lord will punish(K) all those who commit such sins,(L) as we told you and warned you before. 7 For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life.(M) 8 Therefore, anyone who rejects this instruction does not reject a human being but God, the very God who gives you his Holy Spirit.(N)
9 Now about your love for one another(O) we do not need to write to you,(P) for you yourselves have been taught by God(Q) to love each other.(R) 10 And in fact, you do love all of God’s family throughout Macedonia.(S) Yet we urge you, brothers and sisters, to do so more and more,(T) 11 and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands,(U) just as we told you, 12 so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders(V) and so that you will not be dependent on anybody.
Footnotes
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 Or learn to live with your own wife; or learn to acquire a wife
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 The Greek word for brother or sister (adelphos) refers here to a believer, whether man or woman, as part of God’s family.
Cross references
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : 2Co 13:11; 2Th 3:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S Eph 4:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:1 : S 2Co 5:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S Eph 5:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:3 : S 1Co 6:18
- 1 Thessalonians 4:4 : 1Co 7:2, 9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Ro 1:26
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : Eph 4:17
- 1 Thessalonians 4:5 : S Gal 4:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Lev 25:17; 1Co 6:8
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Dt 32:35; Ps 94:1; Ro 2:5-11; 12:19; Heb 10:30, 31
- 1 Thessalonians 4:6 : Heb 13:4
- 1 Thessalonians 4:7 : Lev 11:44; 1Pe 1:15
- 1 Thessalonians 4:8 : Eze 36:27; Ro 5:5; 2Co 1:22; Gal 4:6; 1Jn 3:24
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Ro 12:10
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : 1Th 5:1
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 6:45
- 1 Thessalonians 4:9 : S Jn 13:34
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S Ac 16:9
- 1 Thessalonians 4:10 : S 1Th 3:12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:11 : Eph 4:28; 2Th 3:10-12
- 1 Thessalonians 4:12 : S Mk 4:11
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Firstly, he teaches them how to be sanctified. The number one way is to avoid sexual immorality. This is how many Christians fall. Sexual immorality pierces a person’s heart, mind, and soul and makes them unhealthy in every way. Moreover, an unholy sexual appetite leads believers to take advantage of others, with no remorse. We need the Holy Spirit to win the victory over our earthly nature (Col 3:5).
The world around them was filled with sexual immorality promoted by a polytheistic worship that included prostitution. Like them, we need to renounce ungodly cultural norms and decide by faith to be holy, with the help of the Holy Spirit. Then we can escape God’s wrath, grow in holiness, and make a strong, godly community.
Secondly, they should continue to love each other with God’s help. This includes minding your own business and working hard, not depending on others. Such a quiet life distinguishes us from unbelievers who get entangled in fights.
Prayer: Father, thank you for the Holy Spirit who sanctifies us to be holy and loving Christians.
One Word: Live to please God, not myself