2 Samuel , Sarah Barry
THE KING'S FRIEND
Passage: 2Samuel 16:15~23  
Key verse: 18
The Advice of Ahithophel and Hushai
15 Meanwhile, Absalom(A) and all the men of Israel came to Jerusalem, and Ahithophel(B) was with him. 16 Then Hushai(C) the Arkite, David’s confidant, went to Absalom and said to him, “Long live the king! Long live the king!”
17 Absalom said to Hushai, “So this is the love you show your friend? If he’s your friend, why didn’t you go with him?”(D)
18 Hushai said to Absalom, “No, the one chosen by the Lord, by these people, and by all the men of Israel—his I will be, and I will remain with him. 19 Furthermore, whom should I serve? Should I not serve the son? Just as I served your father, so I will serve you.”(E)
20 Absalom said to Ahithophel, “Give us your advice. What should we do?”
21 Ahithophel answered, “Sleep with your father’s concubines whom he left to take care of the palace. Then all Israel will hear that you have made yourself obnoxious to your father, and the hands of everyone with you will be more resolute.” 22 So they pitched a tent for Absalom on the roof, and he slept with his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel.(F)
23 Now in those days the advice(G) Ahithophel gave was like that of one who inquires of God. That was how both David(H) and Absalom regarded all of Ahithophel’s advice.
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1. David's friend (15-19)
When Absalom arrived in Jerusalem, Hushai came up to him and exclaimed, "Long live the king!" Absalom thought Hushai was referring to him, but he wasn't. That is what Hushai wanted him to believe, but Hushai was actually speaking about David. The same was true when Hushai declared his loyalty to the one whom the LORD and all the men of Israel had chosen. Hushai chose his words carefully in a way that never betrayed David. Hushai really was David's friend. He was obedient and trustworthy and he valued David's life more than his own. Jesus says, "You are my friends if you do what I command." Hushai is an example of how to be a friend of the king.
2. Ahithophel's counsel (20-23)
Hushai's mission was to frustrate the advice of Ahithophel and that was not an easy task. Ahithophel advised Absalom to sleep with David's concubines in order to ensure a permanent separation between David and Absalom. Although his advice was wicked, God used it to fulfill his word. Long ago, the prophet Nathan had declared to David that "Before your very eyes I will take your wives and give them to one who is close to you..." In all of this, Hushai could rest in the fact that God's sovereign will would prevail.
Prayer: Lord Jesus, help us to be loyal friends like Hushai.
One Word: His I will be, and with him I will remain!