THE MEANING OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE, Dr. Samuel Lee
LET THE LITTLE CHILDREN COME TO ME
Passage: Matthew 19:1~15  
Key verse: 14
Divorce(A)
19 When Jesus had finished saying these things,(B) he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. 2 Large crowds followed him, and he healed them(C) there.
3 Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife(D) for any and every reason?”
4 “Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’[a](E) 5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[b]?(F) 6 So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
7 “Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”(G)
8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”(H)
10 The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”
11 Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given.(I) 12 For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”
The Little Children and Jesus(J)
13 Then people brought little children to Jesus for him to place his hands on them(K) and pray for them. But the disciples rebuked them.
14 Jesus said, “Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs(L) to such as these.”(M) 15 When he had placed his hands on them, he went on from there.
Footnotes
- Matthew 19:4 Gen. 1:27
- Matthew 19:5 Gen. 2:24
Cross references
- Matthew 19:1 : 19:1-9pp — Mk 10:1-12
- Matthew 19:1 : S Mt 7:28
- Matthew 19:2 : S Mt 4:23
- Matthew 19:3 : Mt 5:31
- Matthew 19:4 : Ge 1:27; 5:2
- Matthew 19:5 : Ge 2:24; 1Co 6:16; Eph 5:31
- Matthew 19:7 : Dt 24:1-4; Mt 5:31
- Matthew 19:9 : S Lk 16:18
- Matthew 19:11 : S Mt 13:11; 1Co 7:7-9, 17
- Matthew 19:13 : 19:13-15pp — Mk 10:13-16; Lk 18:15-17
- Matthew 19:13 : S Mk 5:23
- Matthew 19:14 : S Mt 25:34
- Matthew 19:14 : Mt 18:3; 1Pe 2:2
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Jesus welcomed little children. There was never anyone unworthy of Jesus’ love. Rather, he said “The kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these.” We, too, are welcomed to take part in Jesus’ table to break bread together, find mercy and acceptance by God. God does not seek to push away, but to always embrace, and create bonds of belonging and unity. Marriage may not be for everyone, but there is always a need and way to belong to God.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for welcoming me as you did even little children. Help me to embrace the love and belonging you embody with others.
One Word: Heaven belongs to such as these.