THE MEANING OF A HAPPY MARRIAGE, Dr. Samuel Lee
THE RICH YOUNG MAN
Passage: Matthew 19:16~22  
Key verse: 21
The Rich and the Kingdom of God(A)
16 Just then a man came up to Jesus and asked, “Teacher, what good thing must I do to get eternal life(B)?”(C)
17 “Why do you ask me about what is good?” Jesus replied. “There is only One who is good. If you want to enter life, keep the commandments.”(D)
18 “Which ones?” he inquired.
Jesus replied, “‘You shall not murder, you shall not commit adultery,(E) you shall not steal, you shall not give false testimony, 19 honor your father and mother,’[a](F) and ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’[b]”(G)
20 “All these I have kept,” the young man said. “What do I still lack?”
21 Jesus answered, “If you want to be perfect,(H) go, sell your possessions and give to the poor,(I) and you will have treasure in heaven.(J) Then come, follow me.”
22 When the young man heard this, he went away sad, because he had great wealth.
Footnotes
- Matthew 19:19 Exodus 20:12-16; Deut. 5:16-20
- Matthew 19:19 Lev. 19:18
Cross references
- Matthew 19:16 : 19:16-29pp — Mk 10:17-30; Lk 18:18-30
- Matthew 19:16 : S Mt 25:46
- Matthew 19:16 : Lk 10:25
- Matthew 19:17 : Lev 18:5
- Matthew 19:18 : Jas 2:11
- Matthew 19:19 : Ex 20:12-16; Dt 5:16-20
- Matthew 19:19 : Lev 19:18; S Mt 5:43
- Matthew 19:21 : Mt 5:48
- Matthew 19:21 : S Ac 2:45
- Matthew 19:21 : S Mt 6:20
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1. What good thing must I do? (16-19)
This young man had spiritual desire. He knew that he lacked something. By human standards he was morally upright, but by God's standards, he was a sinner. So Jesus taught him that only God is good. Jesus asked him about the commandments having to do with human relations in order that he might realize his spiritual need. Superficially, he seemed to keep these, but actually, he did not love his neighbor as himself. His great problem was that he did not have a personal relationship with God.
2. What do I still lack? (20-22)
Jesus opened the way for this young man to be his disciple and to become a child of God. Jesus invited him to exchange worldly treasures for treasures in heaven. This young man was not free. He had become a slave to his possessions, so he turned and went away sadly.
Prayer: Lord, help me to love you first, others next and myself last. Thank you for the gift of eternal life.
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